when cam models get exposed dating/having a bf - big turn off?

[wickedwi]

So few moments ago I just checked upon Xobrittmarie aka Brittany Marie on MFC, she's been gone for a while because she was complaining about how bad she did in december LOL. Anyways.. Someone asked her whether or not she was going on a date with someone on Valentine's Day, she said she was. For some reason it kinda triggered that "Ohh she's not turning me on anymore knowing that she's dating someone now" effect. Well I may sound like a douche or a weirdo, but I personally feel like as a fan supporting a model financially that it feels weird for some odd reason to support a model who's dating/ has a boyfriend. I dont know about you but it's just a big turn off when they just deny that they do have a boyfriend or date, and then get exposed about it, kinda kills the fantasy lol. Just in general it feels weird to support another dudes girlfriend, for me at least.

So some questions. Does the model become less attractive because of it? And do you think models deny having a boyfriend because it yields them more money?

Would like some input on this.

 

[theanonymousm]

I don't mind at all if a model has a boyfriend. I actually prefer it on Chaturbate because then there's a possibility of a sex show. Either way I'm just there for her body, not for some not-gonna-happen possibility/fantasy that we would ever be together. She deserves to have someone. And I still tip waitstaff for service and pay musicians for entertainment regardless of whether they're single or not. This isn't any different to me. I'm not less entertained if they're dating, so I don't think they're worth less money.

That being said, I'm sure you're not alone in being turned off by a model having a boyfriend, and I'm sure models know they might make less money because of it. So of course some of them lie in order to maintain the fantasy for those who need it. I think you're turned off by finding out it's just business to them. (Hint: on MFC it always is.)

 

[Zues006]

Brit has had a boyfriend... I don't believe she has ever denied it. Anyway, camgirls have lives too, some choose not to talk about significant others, some talk about everything going on in their life, some attempt to keep private life private and some will answer if asked. The way I see things is if I find someone attractive, hott, etc. I'm sure someone else does too. What I find stupid is when a camgirl categorically denies a bf/husband when there is documented evidence that there is one. Answer to your questions: #1. No #2. They believe so, and it probably does. Guys are dumb and believe (or want to believe) they have a chance with these girls. If you have Drew Carey money, then you might have a chance... lol

 

[agnios]

boyfriend means possible boy/girl show, so no I do not mind. HOWEVER, I do not go for models that try to create the fantasy that they are your girlfriend and you have a meaningful relationship. If I were interested in that sort of model and had built up that sort of relationship I would likely be hurt and or upset were I to find out she had a boyfriend and was only pretending, if she had presented herself as genuine.

for me MFC is fantasy, not something I try to make real. That is likely why I have never had my heart broken by a camgirl. My wallet being broken by one is another story

 

[wickedwi]

Zues, actually she never said once she had a boyfriend, she said she didn't many times. But however I agree on many things you guys have said. But as for boy/girl, I wouldn't hold my breath on it, she's said she never would do it and frankly I don't see why she would do it, she doesn't even do spreads or anything explicit and has not done anything like that for 2 years of camming or 5 years with her website. She's done good enough throughout the years. I heard she was getting hateful mails and such becuase of it, even death threats don't know about that being true or not.

 

[VonRaschke]

I'm more annoyed by cam models that lie about their age by shaving a decade off their actual age.

 

[Dwight_K_Schrute]

My issue has never been with models being single or attached, but rather those who go out of their way to lie about it. Some models are open, others prefer not to say and then quite a few lie through their teeth about it even though people are well aware of their significant other.

Someone else also brought up a good point about models who drastically lie about their age. One model did say she was 24 and then this year she moved it to 27, but in fact she is in her early 30's. A lot of models have the mentality of having to lie/fib to get ahead I suppose. Anything to gain an advantage over the competition.

I don't feel models who are attached are any less attractive, but I personally do not fantasize about dating the models so others might see this differently. I do think models believe it would help them financially to hide this, but I think it hurts more than anything as most guys on there want honesty. I think if they found out they were being played they might be more put off than if the model was upfront about her relationship status to begin with.

 

[BOZZOO]

guys, guys, guys...

1. we are ALL being played to some degree. the difference being how deep ur into their bullshit, AKA ur naivety.

2. its the stripper mentality, after all, this IS prostitution LITE. (theyre performing sexual acts for money, just not on u, hence the lite.) ur kidding urself to think otherwise.

this is a business, nothing more. some guys dont get that, but they DO. and its part of the job to make u feel a connection. thats why we have white knights, they were duped into that false connection.

they are lying to u about everything, ok..99.999999% of everything. lying about bf/gf/partners shouldnt even be a blip on the radar, UNLESS ur duped into their bullshit...then... good luck.

 

[jojo71]

It's pretty much an industry standard to present yourself as 24 and available. A friend of mine had her own website for 5 years,this is literally what she learned from models and webmasters coming back from her 1st convention. Webcam business 101 build,maintain and sell the fantasy. Husbands,boyfriends etc turn guys off and away.

 

[Dwight_K_Schrute]

guys, guys, guys...

1. we are ALL being played to some degree. the difference being how deep ur into their bullshit, AKA ur naivety.

2. its the stripper mentality, after all, this IS prostitution LITE. (theyre performing sexual acts for money, just not on u, hence the lite.) ur kidding urself to think otherwise.

this is a business, nothing more. some guys dont get that, but they DO. and its part of the job to make u feel a connection. thats why we have white knights, they were duped into that false connection.

they are lying to u about everything, ok..99.999999% of everything. lying about bf/gf/partners shouldnt even be a blip on the radar, UNLESS ur duped into their bullshit...then... good luck.

I don't drink the Kool-Aid. I just watch everyone else do it, lol.

 

[ZeroTheHero]

I love when the are wearing engagement rings but say they are single and its just a ring they like to wear.

 

[Zues006]

Zues, actually she never said once she had a boyfriend, she said she didn't many times.

IDK about what you have heard, I've been talking to her since she joined MFC and she has always been upfront with me... But then again I don't pay any attention to the chat room, talk to her directly and probably way different topic than the chat room.

 

[BOZZOO]

I've been talking to her since she joined MFC and she has always been upfront with me...

they are lying to u about everything, ok..99.999999% of everything....sorry dude, but theres only 1 thing they want from u..and the rest of us, the rest is that false connection.

 

[BOZZOO]

I don't drink the Kool-Aid. I just watch everyone else do it, lol.

yea, i knew u didnt, but some others? aint so sure.

 

[systmofadown]

I don't mind if they have a bf or husband. I think a lot of guys have this ultimate fantasy that they'll become more than just some guy in the chatroom to these girls, so when they hear boyfriend or husband that fantasy is crushed. I know personally there are 2 or 3 girls I've come across where I had to stop going in their rooms because I couldn't just see them as naked girls, their personalities made me wish I could date them. So I'd rather just not sit in their room becoming more attracted to them personally, and just find their videos later...try and keep it strictly as a porn thing. I hate going into rooms because it's just 5 or 6 guys all trying to "get to know her" and nobody is tipping...and I want to see the girl naked, so I end up spending my money to get the damn show on the road. Then there is the classic "guy who tips to get her clothes back on". Those are the guys who think they have a shot at the girl. The sad thing is, there are probably really good guys in those chatrooms, but I think the mentality is that the guys in the chatrooms are all gross perverts, when they probably have way more in common with the cam girls than some "regular" guy they'll date.

 

[Zues006]

they are lying to u about everything, ok..99.999999% of everything....sorry dude, but theres only 1 thing they want from u..and the rest of us, the rest is that false connection.

Actually you would be surprised on the truths you could learn when you don't start your conversations with, "bby can you fist ur ass"... lmao

 

[aaronmb316]

guys, guys, guys...

1. we are ALL being played to some degree. the difference being how deep ur into their bullshit, AKA ur naivety.

2. its the stripper mentality, after all, this IS prostitution LITE. (theyre performing sexual acts for money, just not on u, hence the lite.) ur kidding urself to think otherwise.

this is a business, nothing more. some guys dont get that, but they DO. and its part of the job to make u feel a connection. thats why we have white knights, they were duped into that false connection.

they are lying to u about everything, ok..99.999999% of everything. lying about bf/gf/partners shouldnt even be a blip on the radar, UNLESS ur duped into their bullshit...then... good luck.

I think it's hilarious how a lot of the guys on there think theyre studs and turning the girl on, when theyre saying "id fuck that pussy so hard and make you cum" blah blah blah, and when they actually pay the girl to watch them on ther cam.

 

[BOZZOO]

Actually you would be surprised on the truths you could learn when you don't start your conversations with, "bby can you fist ur ass"... lmao

i very rarely say anything to them, and certainly nothing like that, i dont care enough. besides, if i want to be fed bullshit, i can do it for free from my ex. lol

truths? hmmm, ok, im not gonna kill the fantasy for ya, im not THAT big of an asshole. i dont think so anyway, but i could be wrong about that...lol

 

[BOZZOO]

I think it's hilarious how a lot of the guys on there think theyre studs and turning the girl on, when theyre saying "id fuck that pussy so hard and make you cum" blah blah blah, and when they actually pay the girl to watch them on ther cam.

they ARE the prime example of the saying "God gave men a brain and a penis, and just enough blood to run 1 at a time.

 

[sicilian]

No hot straight girl is NOT getting fucked off cams.